A Simpler Motherhood

Christmas At Home Bucket List

Let’s make the last month of 2020 the best month. I know what you’re all thinking: that’s not hard to do considering the last nine months. And it’s not, so let’s have some fun, spread some cheer, and make some memories with our people with a Christmas At Home Bucket List.

Today I’m sharing some fun things to do (mostly) at home during this season. Our family will not get to all of them this month because we are not superheroes. Instead, each family member will choose one thing to do together. Here are some ideas for a Christmas At Home Bucket List.

Christmas At Home Bucket List

Get 3D Christmas light glasses and take a drive to look at lights, hot chocolate in hand of course.

Send a video Christmas card to the ones you love.

Make cinnamon rolls, banana bread, or chocolate chip cookies and deliver to neighbors on a random December morning.

Buy coffee for someone in the coffee drive thru.

Make Christmas cookies and slip a plate into your mailbox for your mail carrier.

Get on Christmas pjs and have a dance party to your favorite Christmas tunes.

Get dollar white mugs and DIY them for Christmas using this easy and cheap tutorial. Give away to grandparents or keep at home for special hot cocoa mugs.

Check out a load of Christmas books from the library and read them by the Christmas tree. Bonus points: Have a picnic while you read under the twinkly lights.

Write and decorate festive letters to service men and women thanking them for serving our country.

Learn to sing a few Christmas songs. Record your littles singing and send to Grandma and Grandpa.

Send a mini Christmas tree and a heartfelt note to an elderly relative who may not be able to see loved ones this year.

Each night before bedtime, listen to a Christmas audio book. A few to choose from: A Christmas Carol, The Nutcracker, The Best Christmas Pageant Ever, How the Grinch Stole Christmas, The Candle in the Window.

Slow down one night each week. Turn off the television, put the phones away, and gaze at the Christmas tree with the ones you love. A little Silent Night playing in the background wouldn’t hurt.

Make an easy bird feeder and watch the birds enjoy their Christmas present from the window.

Make a decadent meal together as a family. Each person chooses one dish and either makes the dish or helps make the dish. Get dressed up and end the night with a fancy dance party by the tree.

Choose one Christmas movie no one has seen before and watch together with popcorn and Christmas M&Ms.

Roast marshmallows in the fireplace. My kids love the colorful Lucky Charms marshmallows.

Bundle up and go for a walk outside to look for pinecones. Fresh air can do wonders this time of year.

Make gift bags with colorful notes for residents at a nursing home.

Christmas is here and coming to life around us. What is on your Christmas At Home Bucket List?

A Simpler Christmas

December is here and the Christmas season is in full swing.  It truly is a magical time of year. I have been a mom for eight years and have slowly learned my heart longs for A Simpler Christmas. This year, more than ever, the savoring and slowing down of the season is just what my soul needs.

What seems like just yesterday (and which was actually four years ago), I was met with the dilemma of being very pregnant with two babes, little energy and the same four weeks in front of me.  I decided to simplify our Christmas season while holding tight to the joy and magic.  Friends, it was one of the best things I have done as a mom. I learned a lot that year about how I wanted Christmas to look and feel and have tweaked it each Christmas. Here are some ways I have found to A Simpler Christmas…

Simpler Gifting

If you’ve been following along with the Christmas Gift Challenge, you know I am done Christmas shopping! I set a goal in My Christmas Plan to be done shopping by December 1. I am so incredibly happy to be finished and enjoying this season with my people.

This year I simplified gifting by shopping online as much as possible. I also am gifting similar gifts to groups of people.  For example, I am giving one simple gift to neighbors and one simple gift to the kids’ friends. I want friends and family to feel loved and appreciated this season, but I think it can be done in a way that doesn’t bring loads of stress to the giver.

Simpler Fashion

Dressing myself and four children during the holidays is no joke.  Although there aren’t many places to go or things to do this year, I still want our crew to be festive to make the season a bit more fun.

Christmas pajamas will be our go-to the next month. I have one festive out-of-the-house outfit for each of us this season. The boys have a festive shirt and joggers and Lily some Christmas dresses (Lily has more than one festive outfit because she is Lily). For myself, I have a sweater with leggings paired with a pair of Charli Dean Designs Christmas earrings, along with a pair of pajamas. In the past I have needed a dress, but that won’t be the case this year. Kevin is on his own, because he always looks good and selecting male clothing is not my gift.  A festive outfit ready to go will eliminate sifting through closets the next month.

Simpler Decorating

We are a family who bundles up, trudges out to a tree farm, and chooses a Christmas tree to cut down.  It’s one of my favorite traditions we have as a family of six.  In the midst of Covid, it is one of the things that isn’t cancelled! After cutting down the tree, we spend the rest of the day pulling out ornaments and lights. We decorate the tree and the rest of the house.  It is a fun day and usually ends with something slow cooking in the oven, crusty bread, and hot chocolate. We did this last weekend and my heart is still full.

The easiest and most straight forward way I have found to simplify Christmas decorating is this: Use less stuff.

The year I was very pregnant, I cut back on decorating a ton.  And you know what, it was still magical and we all still had a wonderful Christmas.  I have found twinkle lights do wonders and the kids each have their own special decorations that make the season magical for them.

Candles, fresh flowers, and cut greens are simple things I do to make our home festive.  And a bonus, I don’t have to store them away when the new year rolls around.

Simpler Advent Calendar

Lucky for me, I have an eight year old this year.  He doesn’t let me even think about forgetting the Advent calendar.  Mommas of super littles, someday you will have a little person to keep you on track (whether you want them to or not).

Our advent calendar this year looks similar to the past few years.  I decided on three random acts of kindness and the rest of the days are filled with simple things like ‘have a pajama day’, ‘make cookies’, ‘sip hot cocoa’, ‘watch a Christmas movie’.  The week of Thanksgiving I planned our countdown to Christmas activities by looking at things we already had on the calendar.  There are many nights I will do some late night switching because I realize we just aren’t going to ‘make cookies’ the next day.

I use this super simple Advent calendar to help us remember everyday the ‘why’ behind Christmas.

Fewer Gifts

If you’ve been around here long, you know our family tries to limit the amount of stuff coming into our home.  Toys, too.  Two of our kids have birthdays in November, so they are already overloaded with stuff come Christmas.  In our early days of being parents we did four gifts at Christmas: something to wear, something to read, something you want, something you need.  While four gifts seems simple enough, there were times our babes didn’t need anything and I was buying things unnecessarily to fit each gift into a category.

My mother-in-law told me about giving three gifts to each child to represent how Jesus received three gifts. I grabbed hold of that and we have been doing it ever since. Each kid receives three gifts, no guidelines involved. They will also get their stockings filled with small consumables like new toothbrushes, Reese’s treats, and a craft.  This simple way of doing Christmas has worked well for us.  

Margin on the Calendar

In November, Kevin and I sat down and discussed what made Christmas feel like Christmas.  For me it is cutting down the tree and visiting Santa at the Durham Museum.  It is having lots of time at home to be together, watch Christmas movies, sing Christmas songs, and make cookies. Kevin simply said being home on Christmas together and giving things to people who need them. We also included the kids this year. Luke said he wants to play Outer Rim (totally not Christmas related), Lily said she wants to eat dinner by the Christmas tree, and Jude said he wants to roast Lucky Charms marshmallows by the fire. All doable, praise Jesus.

Kevin and I sat down and mapped our Christmas season on the calendar and put in all the big things and little things to help us visualize the month.  In years past, there were things we would skip in lieu of having time together at home. This year, we simply don’t have to think about the calendar as much as the majority of our Christmas season will be spent at home.

Something I always need to remember during this season when it comes to all the fun Christmas things…when I see a family on Facebook or Instagram doing something totally Christmas-y I…#1 do my best to not feel guilty about not doing said activity and #2 promise myself I will not add it to our plate this year.  Every family is different. There is no right way to do Christmas.

Simpler Mealtimes

We still have to eat!  Even in this full season, my people still need to eat breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Meal planning will save me this month.  Even though it’s tempting to put planning dinner on the back burner, I know I will pay for it if I don’t.  Soups and crock pot meals are my go to during this Christmas season.  And no leftovers go to waste. A few hacks that will help me this month: Hack #1: Double the meat for taco night and use the leftover meat in chili the next day. Hack #2: Use leftover rotisserie chicken for chicken noodle soup or chicken pot pie later in the week. 

Some of my favorite meals I will be making this month: chili, change your life chicken, chicken noodle soup, chicken pot pie, butternut squash soup, and tacos (always tacos).

Giving Myself Grace

Christmas is one of my favorite times of the year and I want to take in as much as possible and enjoy the magic and wonder that fills December.  This year has been wild, but Christmas is NOT CANCELLED. There is still so much to savor, enjoy, and celebrate.

I love to read a Christmas book and watch Christmas movies on the couch cuddled under a blanket with a cup of peppermint hot cocoa.  I am giving myself permission and grace to do this the next few weeks during nap time or at night after the kids go to bed.  This season only comes around once a year.

As one of the best seasons comes to life around us, I want to slow down, take it in, and make as many memories as possible.  They may not be picture perfect and there might be tears and disappointments intertwined with those memories because #life and #2020, but I’m thankful for this Christmas season nonetheless. Keeping it simple can keep the focus on the real reason for the season: the baby born to save the world.

Merry Christmas, everyone!  I hope your Christmas is merry, bright, and simple!

5 Cozy Gifts

Christmas is weeks away and in the year 2020 things continue to stay weird. We are all getting ready for our long winter’s nap quarantine. However, all hope is not lost. We can choose to savor and enjoy this time with our people at home. Let’s get cozy and embrace this season. Today I’m sharing 5 Cozy Gifts for the ones you love.

5 cozy gifts

You may or may not be able to see all the people you want this Christmas season. And let’s name that: It’s hard and disappointing and sad. But, we can still show the ones we love how we feel with some comforting gifts that make spirits bright.

5 Cozy Gifts

A Good Book (or magazine)

We could all use a little escape or some new strategies to do life well these days. Curled up on the couch with a good book can make even the darkest of days a bit brighter. Here are some favorites I will be gifting this season: The Lazy Genius Way, Welcome Home, You be You, Charlotte’s Web, Lola Dutch, Mercy Watson, Rhythms of Renewal, and New Morning Mercies.

Homemade Cards

Now, more than ever, we want to stay connected when we can’t be face to face. Gifting homemade cards can help the recipient stay connected with friends and family near and far. If you’re looking for special and beautiful cards, check out Natural Joy Boutique for some stunning watercolor cards.

Beeswax Candles

Who doesn’t love burning a candle when it’s gray outside? Make your own beeswax candles with a few items using this tutorial. They are super simple and will make the ones you love cozy this season. DIY isn’t for you? Try a Wax Buffalo candle instead. All the scents are yummy.

Survival Kit

I’m not talking bottled water and toilet paper. I’m talking about a get-through-quarantine-well survival kit. A bag of local coffee, some chocolate, a good book or movie coupon, a candle to light, a plant to nurture, the fixings for a comforting meal. Think through what would make this time brighter and cozier for the one you love and package it up in a cute cloth basket with a heartfelt note.

Homemade Goodies

A homemade batch of cookies or banana bread lifts the spirits and feeds the soul. Chocolate chip cookies, cinnamon rolls, homemade bread, pumpkin muffins. Use one tried and true recipe and double or triple it. Then door step drop to family and friends on a December Saturday morning. Another option is to gift all the ingredients for your famous caramel rolls or shortbread cookies and let the recipient bake them at home, fresh out of the oven. People feel loved and cared for with anything homemade, especially if it comes in the form of a warm cinnamon roll.

Let’s treat the ones we love this season with care and give them a gift that will help them to feel cozy during this time at home. Instead of waiting until Christmas day, why not choose a few people to bless in the next few weeks with an unexpected gift? Let’s spread a little cheer and coziness this season!

Christmas Gift Challenge

It’s officially November, which means we are behind the eight ball if we wanted the wine advent calendar from Costco. I received texts from friends the first week of October telling me the much-sought-after advent calendar was on the shelves. October. Christmas seems to creep up earlier and earlier each year. If Consumer America wants to give us Christmas in October, why not use it to our advantage and do a Christmas Gift Challenge.

This year I have given myself a Challenge. It’s simple: Purchase all Christmas gifts before December 1. Each stocking stuffer. All the neighbor goodies. Every gift under the tree for my babes.

My why behind the Christmas Gift Challenge is this: If my gifts are bought before the magical month of December, I will have room to savor and enjoy the magic and beauty without the added stress Christmas shopping can sometimes initiate. I would love it if you’d join me!

Let’s talk about what this will look like and the practical steps for the Christmas Gift Challenge.

Christmas Gift Challenge

1. Set a budget

If you don’t already have a Christmas budget, set one now and make a commitment to stick to it. Budgeting is all about habit. If a budget hasn’t been on your radar, decide to take one small step towards making it a habit and set a Christmas budget.

2. Make a List

Make a list and check it twice. List all gifts your family will give this year. Use a spreadsheet or notebook (I spoke about my spreadsheet in A Christmas Plan) listing the person to shop for, the gift, and the approximate cost. It may also be helpful to note when you will be giving each gift.

Think about every gift you give each year. Family gifts, teacher gifts, neighbor gifts, coffee barista gifts, mailman gifts. Include it all. After the list is made, sit down with your spouse and go over ideas for gifts. Make it fun by adding an appetizer and special holiday drink to get you both in the Christmas spirit.

Kendra Adache over at The Lazy Genius Collective has a good tip: When deciding what to give people, think about what might make each person feel more like him/herself. Make your list with this in mind.

3. Start Shopping

Set aside time to shop. It will look different for all of us depending on how we shop:online, in person, or a mix of both. Decide when you will shop and put it on the calendar. Or maybe you are making many of your gifts this year. Set aside time to create and get it on the calendar. Don’t assume it will just happen.

Start checking things off your list one by one. Online shopping makes it easy to do all your Christmas shopping on a Saturday afternoon while watching football. Each time you buy or make a gift, note it on the list.

Try to shop small or local when you can to support small businesses. Make it a goal to be done clicking ‘Buy Now’ by December 1.

Jack and I finishing up Christmas shopping last year.

4. Store the goods

Designate a bin or a closet to house the gifts, preferably somewhere out of sight from little eyes. Store all the gifts in one space. Determine if you want to wrap now or later. Wrapping gifts while watching Christmas movies brings me joy, so I will save it for Thursdays and Fridays in December. If you’re worried about remembering what gift goes to who, simply keep the list handy.

Plan for what is difficult while it is easy, do what is great while it is small.

Sun Tzu

Completing the Christmas Gift Challenge will look different for each of us. If you’re overwhelmed with life right now, it might look like getting gifts purchased or made by the first week of December. Or maybe you want to enjoy Thanksgiving too and choose to complete your Christmas shopping before you eat turkey and pumpkin pie. It doesn’t need to look the same for you and me. Make a plan and a goal that works for you, your capacity, and your holiday life.

If we plan and shop for Christmas now while it is easy, our hearts will be lighter and more able to be present when the actual Christmas season arrives. Tell me: Will you join me for the Christmas Gift Challenge?

A Christmas Plan

It’s October. Yes, we haven’t celebrated Halloween, yet. Yes, I am going to be THAT person talking about Christmas before the jack-o-lanterns have even been carved. But friends, it’s all intentional. A Christmas Plan now can make the season a bit more magical and peaceful come December.

Last year was my first year planning Christmas early after speaking to a sweet mom at MOPS. This mom told me she finishes her Christmas shopping before Thanksgiving. Her reasoning was this: she wanted to enjoy December in all it’s glory and not fret about gifts and planning. At the time I thought it was a little extreme, but the more I thought about it, the more it resonated with me. I want to savor December, too.

My Christmas Plan was super helpful last year and I was able to be more present with my people and soak in the magical season. So I am back for round two.

As I write this, I am close to 50% done Christmas shopping, have been readying my pantry, and thinking through our Christmas Calendar.

A good plan is a good idea. Plans allow us to be intentional with our actions so we can achieve our goals. A plan isn’t always necessary, but can be helpful and, at times, essential. I don’t need a plan for what I’m going to do at quiet time each day (although it sure helps). But, I should probably have a plan when taking our family of six to Disney World.

For our family, Christmas is a big deal. Commemorating Christ coming to earth as a baby is cause for great celebration in our home. It may or may not be for your family. If it is, I would argue a Christmas Plan helps make the holiday much more enjoyable and a lot less stressful.

Here is what I am doing to prepare for the magical Christmas season.

Christmas Shopping

I use a Christmas list spreadsheet to outline the people our family will purchase gifts for this year. It outlines in detail who we are buying for, what we are buying, and the cost of the gift. Each year I copy and paste the previous year’s spreadsheets into a new tab. I have used this list for years and although I review and revise each year, the bones stay the same. In the past I have edited at the end of October, but now I open it early September and start making plans.

An alternative to a spreadsheet is a notebook outlining the who, what, and cost of each Christmas gift.

I am about half way done with my Christmas list. The last gifts I need to buy are mostly for my own babes. My hope is to be done before December 1 and (fingers crossed) I think it’s realistic at this point.

A few things I have found to be helpful in buying Christmas gifts.

1. Start Early

For years I have shopped year round and kept bought gifts in a ‘GIFTS’ tub high and away from little eyes (The women in my life have taught me well). However, the past two years, I have been intentional with starting the list sooner. The earlier I have my list in hand, the quicker and simpler my shopping becomes. My spreadsheet holds every person I will buy for along with the gift and cost. This keeps me accountable to stay on budget, to shop intentionally, and helps me avoid impulse purchases.

2. Give similar gifts for specific groups of people.

This has been sanity saving for me. I give the same gifts to various groups of people. For example, I enjoy giving small gifts to my MOPS table as well as neighbors. Giving the same gift to similar groups of people just makes sense. This small Christmas hack makes Christmas shopping a bit simpler and I still believe people feel loved in the giving.

3. Shop online.

This isn’t rocket science, but it is smart. In the time of COVID, this is probably the route many are taking. Most of the shopping I have already completed has been online. I have shopped small and shopped Amazon. (Some of my favorite small shops are: Alice and Ames, Charli Dean Designs, Wax Buffalo, and Natural Joy Boutique.) When those packages come in the mail, I simply place them in the ‘GIFT’ tub that lives in my master closet. I will wrap all the gifts when the season gets closer because it is something I enjoy. My Thursday and Friday afternoons in December will be spent watching Christmas movies and wrapping gifts for the special people in my life.

Readying the Home

No, my Christmas decorations are not up. Pumpkins are still donning our porches and our costumes are hanging in the closet ready to be worn on the last day of October. Christmas pretties wait until after Thanksgiving at our house.

However, I have been readying our pantry and freezer for the upcoming holiday season. Our family has tried to use what we have in the pantry and freezer this fall to make room for the goodies that will fill it for the upcoming holidays. I also did a quick pantry sweep to purge expired items.

In the next month, I will stock up on pantry items needed for the holiday season. Things for baking: flour, sugar, pie crusts, vanilla, peanut butter, sprinkles. And ingredients for comfort foods: butternut squash, chicken stock, yeast for bread, and bacon. Readying my home now takes one thing off my plate later.

The Christmas Calendar

We all know the month of December can fill up fast. Things might be a little different with COVID in the mix, but there will still be things to do and ways to celebrate. Last year we made a list of things we wanted to do as a family. This year we did the same and they are currently on the calendar. In October. We won’t be scrambling to find time to do certain activities together because we already know when we are cutting down our tree and delivering neighbor gifts. It’s on the calendar.

Another perk of including the calendar in the Christmas Plan is it allows us to know what we can and can’t do when things come up. It’s impossible to do everything in December, so knowing what we do want to do and planning ahead allows us to make space for it.

Christmas Traditions

I am a sucker for Christmas traditions. They give me all the warm, fuzzy feelings and I can’t help but appreciate them all. However, I know myself and how I can get overwhelmed. I know myself and know I can’t do all the Christmas traditions. I know myself and what will work and won’t work for our family. This year I made a list of traditions our family will do and will not do. I honestly think there is more power in making the ‘will not’ list.

We will…

Read a Christmas book each day.

Cut down our Christmas tree and decorate it together.

Deliver gifts to our neighbors.

Make a birthday cake for Jesus.

We will not…

Wrap a book up for each day of December.

Visit every Santa sighting.

Do elf on the shelf.

Add things to our ‘will’ list after scrolling social media.

As someone who sometimes struggles with FOMO, I know the Christmas ‘will’ and ‘will not’ lists will come in handy. If you make a list as well, please know your list will be different than mine and that’s 1000% the way it should be. It’s quite possible a tradition I desire for my family will not be one you desire for your’s. THERE IS NO RIGHT WAY TO DO CHRISTMAS. #amen

I yearn for a little more peace in my Christmas and a little less hectic. I am hopeful having a Christmas Plan will allow me to be more present during the month of December with my people and truly celebrate the reason for the season: the birth of our Savior. Tell me: Will you have a Christmas Plan for the upcoming season? Do you have any tips or tricks to make Christmas a bit more peaceful and a little less stressful? I would love to hear!

Fall Simplicity Challenges

The changing of the seasons naturally triggers a fresh start. The seasonal rhythm offers a chance to begin again, to create something new, to re-establish some simplicity in our lives, to complete one or two Fall Simplicity Challenges.

While getting ourselves and our homes ready for fall, a good challenge can keep us accountable, stretch us, and grow us from our sun-drenched summer selves. Today I’m sharing some fun Fall Simplicity Challenges. They are called challenges for a reason: they challenge. They will challenge us to push ourselves, get out of our comfort zones, and possibly deny ourselves short term so we can grow long term.

If you are competitive in nature, this post is for you. This is how it works: Choose one Fall Simplicity Challenge and complete for one week. At the end of the week, notice how you feel and reflect and name one thing you learned during the challenge. Possibly partner with a friend and complete the same challenge to keep each other accountable. The purpose of the Fall Simplicity Challenges are to get you to make progress in the area of simplicity and build some momentum to keep on the journey.

There is something for everyone. If you need to start small, choose a challenge from the Motivate Me challenges. If you are ready and motivated, pick a challenge from the I’m Motivated section. And if you need an overhaul and are looking for big change, check out I want to do it all. Like I said, something for everyone.

Fall Simplicity Challenges

Motivate Me.

You need to move some things out of your home. Grab an empty cardboard box. Each day, choose 10 things to let go of and put in the box. At the end of the week, haul those 70 items (or more) off to a donation center and reward yourself with the beverage of your choice. Bonus points: Designate a permanent donation box or bin and regularly declutter unused items.

The toys have taken over every inch of your home. Discuss with your kids how unused toys could go to kids who don’t have many toys. (This is a great add on challenge to the first one above, we want to lead by example!) Each child chooses 10 toys they are no longer enjoying to donate. If you want to make it an all week thing, choose 2-3 toys a day every day for a week. Donate the toys and have a dance party to celebrate helping others.

Maybe you have been enjoying to-go curbside pick up a little too often lately. Decide to eat in all week long, including no pumpkin spice lattes. (Make your own pumpkin spice at home with Lydia’s recipe for Scooter’s Pumpkin Pie Smoothie Copycat over at Joy Filled Table.) Take the money you save and purchase some local coffee beans or just throw it in the bank.

Your phone is full of beautiful pictures of your family, but having so many is overwhelming. Go through your phone each day this week and delete 10 photos you don’t love.

I’m motivated.

Choose one room to declutter and organize. Every day set aside 15 minutes to declutter the chosen room. Set the timer, put in earbuds, and get to work. You will be amazed at what you accomplish in a little over an hour and a half in a week. Bonus points: If you’re still motivated after 15 minutes, set the timer for another 15 minutes and see how much you can get done.

Tackle every kid’s room in one week. Get a caddy loaded with cleaning supplies, grab a garbage sack for trash and a box for donations. If your kids are old enough, tell them their day at the beginning of the week and communicate how you will need their help. Meticulously go through each room and get rid of unused and ill fitting clothes and toys. Reward everyone with apple pie and ice cream when every room is complete.

Your pantry and freezer are full. Commit to not making a trip to the grocery store this week and getting creative with the things you have on hand. When you have made it 7 days without an online grocery order, reward everyone with the last of the popsicles in the freezer.

Set a timer for 15 minutes each day to work on your photo clutter. A few tasks to choose from: 1. Go through and delete unwanted photos on your phone or computer. 2. Get all the pictures from your phone to your computer. 3. Upload all pictures from your phone to an outside source like Shutterfly, Dropbox or an external hard drive. 4. Organize your photos on your computer into folders. 5. Begin a picture book for your family using Shutterfly, Chatbooks, or some other site.

I want to do it all.

Finally take the leap to overhaul the clothes closets. There are a million ways to do it, but here are two options. Option #1: Take all the clothes out and put them on the bed. Go through each item and ask yourself: Do I love it? Does it fit? Would I buy it again? If you answer ‘yes’, put it in the KEEP pile. If you answer ‘no’, donate, sell, or trash. Option #2: Keep your clothes in the closet and first tackle the summer clothes asking yourself: Do I love it? Does it fit? Did I wear it this summer? If you answer ‘yes’, put it in the KEEP pile. If you answer ‘no’, donate, sell, or trash. Continue with the fall, winter, and spring clothes. Bonus points: If you want to take it a step further and curate a capsule wardrobe, check out Fall Capsule Wardrobe.

Create a toy closet. Box up half the toys in the play spaces. Organize the toys in a toy closet so they are easily accessible. Kids are able to ‘check out’ toys from the toy closet by putting currently played with toys in the toy closet. Cutting toys by half means less clean up and clutter for everyone.

Eat through your pantry and freezer. No curbside pick up, no drive thru coffees, no last minute grocery pick up. Work with what you have for one week, no stocking up beforehand. Challenge yourself and your family to get creative and use what you have to eat meals throughout the week.

Make this the week you will tackle your photos. Start with January 2020 and delete unwanted photos, upload photos onto your computer and then Shutterfly, and begin a family photo book for 2020.

You’ve got this.

Challenges are a way to make a lot of change in a little amount of time. Keep in mind: It may or may not be the season for you to tackle a Fall Simplicity Challenge. But, if you’re feeling the itch to get rid of the clutter, to make a change, to finally clean out the spare bedroom, there is no better time than now!

Tell me: What Fall Simplicity Challenge will you choose to complete?

Book List for Fall

The fall and winter months lend themselves to more book reading. Shorter days and longer nights, cooler temps, and the hankering to get cozy are just a few reasons to enjoy a good book in the fall.

I love a good book list. It allows me to always have a book ‘on deck’ so I’m never without something to read. Today I’m sharing a Book List for Fall for moms and kids.

Book List for Fall (For Moms)

Welcome Home

Myquillin Smith (aka The Nester) is my home decorating boss. She is real, down to earth, and has coined the term ‘cozy minimalist’, which I love. Her new book, Welcome Home came out September 15 and you better believe I pre-ordered it. This is her third book (I highly recommend her other two) and is about creating a home with more style and less stuff for each season.

The Lazy Genius Way

Kendra Adachi introduced me to one of my favorite meals: change your life chicken. She is a mom, wife, podcaster, and creator of The Lazy Genius movement. I am looking forward to diving into The Lazy Genius Way this fall.

Simplicity Parenting

Once a year, I try and read this book. It’s my favorite parenting book and one I gain a lot of value from. Kim John Payne thoroughly describes the childhood I want for my kids and how to get there. I thought I would get to this book over the summer, but it didn’t happen. It’s on my Book List for Fall.

You Be You: Why Satisfaction and Success Are Closer Than You Think

This is Jamie Ivey’s second book and comes out October 1, 2020. Jamie is a podcaster, mom, wife, and loves Jesus. I am a big fan of her and her work. I know I’m going to love this one.

Night Road

If you haven’t read Kristin Hannah, you should. The Nightingale, The Great Alone, Firefly Lane, and Winter Garden are some of my favorite books, all by Hannah. Somehow I missed this 2011 book and I’m excited to read it this fall. The only fiction book on the list, I will devour this one.

Book List for Fall (For Kids)

Scarecrow by Cynthia Rylant

It’s not fall without a book about a scarecrow. This book is sweet and is the perfect lead in to a scarecrow art project. Check out this Art Hub for Kids.

Because of an Acorn by Lola M. Schaefer and Adam Schaefer

Every fall we have little oak trees growing in our yard because our squirrel friends bury acorns everywhere. This is the perfect book to discuss the connections of nature. It’s simple and short and begs for a nature walk after reading.

Goodbye Summer, Hello Autumn by Kenard Pak

Recommended by Sarah McKenzie over at Read Aloud Revival, this book is beautiful and gets you in the mood for fall.

Pumpkin Soup by Helen Cooper

Pumpkin Soup tells the story of friendship and three animals making pumpkin soup. My kids love to reread this one and giggle every time.

Applesauce Day by Lisa J. Amstutz

If you’re heading to an apple orchard to Celebrate Fall, this is a great read before or after you go.

Nancy Drew and the Clue Crew: The Pumpkin Patch Puzzle

Mysteries are a thing around here and Nancy Drew is queen of mysteries. We will be reading The Pumpkin Patch Puzzle this fall.

The Friendship Garden: Pumpkin Spice

The Friendship Garden series is new to us, but it looks sweet and perfect for ages 4-8, which is great for our family.

Reading seems like the right thing to do in the fall. Tell me: What books will you be reading this fall?

Fall Capsule Wardrobe

With fall upon us, it’s the perfect time to recreate your closet and wardrobe for the new season with a Fall Capsule Wardrobe. A capsule wardrobe makes life simpler while still offering choices and creativity.

What is a Capsule Wardrobe?

A capsule wardrobe is a mini wardrobe created for a specific season in mind. It’s intentionally curated with items you love that are versatile and can be utilized in multiple outfit combinations.

Why a Capsule Wardrobe?

The number one reason a capsule wardrobe is beneficial is decision fatigue. A study done by an online shopping company showed women spend, on average, 16 minutes a day pondering what to pull from their closets to wear. A capsule wardrobe can reduce decision fatigue and save time because the pieces are curated to assemble an outfit in little to no time. Of course there is always the option to get creative within the boundaries of a capsule wardrobe.

A capsule wardrobe also reduces impulse purchasing and spending. The average American woman spends $150-$400 a month on clothes. With a capsule wardrobe, shopping happens at the front end of each season instead of every time a sale comes across the inbox. (Note: unsubscribe, unsubscribe, unsubscribe.)

A capsule wardrobe can reduce waste, as it promotes quality over quantity. An average consumer throws away 70 pounds of clothes a year. A capsule wardrobe can reduce waste as it reduces shopping and promotes buying intentionally.

Curating a Capsule Wardrobe

Curating a capsule wardrobe can take a bit of time, depending on the size of closet. However, it’s doable if taken in small chunks over the course of a few days or a week.

Step 1

Pull down everything in your closet that could possibly be worn this fall. Box up everything else for other seasons and put out of sight. Go through each piece of clothing and ask: Do I love it? Would I buy it again? Does it fit? Be honest answering these questions. Make two piles: one for KEEP and one for DONATE/CONSIGN.

Step 2

Take inventory of what you have. If you want, choose a color scheme of colors you love to wear, around 3-4 colors. Create outfits with the pieces you have by sketching them, putting them physically together, or visually creating them in your mind. (This may seem like a silly step, but is quite worthwhile.)

Step 3

Decide if there are any pieces you need to purchase for fall. Make a shopping list and commit to shopping now and not again until next season. Choose quality over quantity for the pieces you need to purchase. Here is a great round up of ethical, quality shops: My Favorite Ethical Brands.

Step 4

Hang and fold clothes neatly you will use for your Fall Capsule Wardrobe. Donate or consign the unwanted items and box up out of season clothing.

Note: If you’re wanting a bit more information and a printable on curating a capsule wardrobe, see this post: How to Create a Capsule Wardrobe.

My Fall Capsule Wardrobe

1 vest

1 zip up jacket

1 jean jacket

1 dress

3 cardigans

3 sweaters

5 sweatshirts

3 button ups

1 long sleeve top

7 t-shirts

3 tank tops (These will get put away when the temperature drops.)

3 pairs of leggings

2 pairs of joggers

1 pair of jeans, 1 pair of black jeans

2 pairs of boots, 1 pair of sneakers

Obviously not a fashion blogger. 😉

My Fall Purchases

When I put my Fall Capsule Wardrobe together, I had a few things I wanted to add. I purchased a pair of leggings, a sweater, a sweatshirt, and a winter jacket. My leggings and sweatshirt purchases were specifically for bike rides this fall, a new family hobby. The sweater purchase was something I have been looking at for awhile from Everlane. Last year my winter jacket made it to the donation pile because it had been on it’s last leg for a few years. I knew the only way to make it happen would be to donate what I have. I made these purchases intentionally and don’t plan on buying any other clothes until I piece together my winter capsule wardrobe.

The changing of the seasons is the perfect time to finally edit your closet and create a wardrobe you love. Tell me: will you create a Fall Capsule Wardrobe?

Celebrate Fall

Crisp fallen leaves, adventures in tall boots and brown grass, pumpkin muffins, and hay rack rides. It’s time to Celebrate Fall.

There is no denying fall is a magical time of year. Fall is the perfect temperature for a hoodie and cozy socks. It’s for Saturdays with a hot cup of coffee and a game to watch. Fall is making the house smell like banana bread or pumpkin muffins or zucchini cakes. It’s a season when we can watch and enjoy the transformation from summer to fall in all it’s red, purple, and gold glory. The changing of the seasons is an intentional rhythm and one we can celebrate.

Saying goodbye to summer and hello to fall looks different for all of us. Intentionally creating space and celebrating the seasonal rhythm can help us feel grounded, give us joyful anticipation, and make life a bit more fun.

Today I’m sharing some ways to Celebrate Fall. These ideas are simply a place to begin. Not every family will find joy in the things on this list. My hope is it will inspire you to create a list of ways you and your family can Celebrate Fall.

Celebrate Fall

Read Goodbye Summer, Hello Autumn by Kenard Pak with your kids. Discuss the changing of the seasons and use this as the motivation to start your discussion on ways you can Celebrate Fall.

Go on a nature hunt to the nearest local park or preservation area. Read the book We’re Going on a Leaf Hunt prior to heading out. Bring sketch books to draw what you find.

Head to the local farmer’s market to see what has been harvested recently. Squash, pumpkins, tomatoes. Create a harvest meal together. In many places, these markets will wrap up in the next month, so make a trip soon!

Apple crisp, applesauce, apple pie, apple cider, apple donuts. Apples feel like fall. Choose a recipe you want to make with apples and then visit a local orchard to pick yourself.

Create a capsule wardrobe for yourself or your kids for this fall. Go through what you already have for the coming season and then make a shopping list. Get your closets ready for fall!

Invite family or friends over for a bonfire and s’more feast. Get creative with the combinations. My favorite is a s’more with a Reese’s inside.

Head to your local gardening center and pick up fall mums or other fall blooming flowers to brighten your pots.

Collect some fallen leaves and let your kids get creative as they paint and stamp with them. This tutorial is simple and easy.

It wouldn’t be fall without a trip to a pumpkin patch. Put on your boots and support your local patch. Pumpkins feel like fall.

Speaking of pumpkins, make some pumpkin goodies. These chocolate chip pumpkin muffins are my favorite fall treat.

How will you Celebrate Fall?

The changing from summer to fall keeps us grounded and allows us to anticipate all the adventures and experiences the new season will bring. Tell me: how will you Celebrate Fall?

A Day in the Life

A few times a year I like to capture A Day in the Life. Mostly so I can look back someday and cry big crocodile tears over how little my babies were and how precious our time was, but also because sometimes inspiration strikes when we peek into someone else’s day. Personally, I like to read how others do things and many times when I do, I make a small edit somewhere that makes a load of difference.

I don’t need to tell anyone the year 2020 is one for the history books. As weird as the past nine months have been, I have savored this time because I’m pretty sure the entire world will never shut down again (at least I hope not). A Day in 2020 looks mighty different than a day in 2019. It’s a journey, nonetheless, and one I’m happy to be on.

A Day in the Life…

5:00 a.m. Alarm goes off. I get dressed and complete a Motivated workout in our bedroom.

5:20 a.m. Read devotion on the couch and pray. New Morning Mercies is my current read.

5:35 a.m. Mix up gluten free blueberry muffins. It’s a Tuesday rhythm since Kevin has Zoom Bible study each Tuesday and I am on breakfast duty.

5:50 a.m. Go for a walk. It’s my new self care.

6:10 a.m. Take a shower and get ready for the day.

6:25 a.m. Put muffins in the oven, sit down to write and read.

7:00 a.m. Get kids up for the day. Cuddle with Luke on the couch. Luke is slow to rise and I savor the cuddles with him. The ten minutes snuggled up with my firstborn is a treasure to me.

7:10 a.m. Breakfast. The kids aren’t super hungry this morning, so they each eat 2 muffins and I throw some sausage in the skillet for Lily and Jude. With some protein in their bellies, I know they will make it to lunch.

7:20 a.m. Get Jack up and feed him a breakfast of milk, banana, and Cheerios.

7:50 a.m. The kids watch Real City Heroes for 15 minutes because Jude earned a potty reward.

7:55 a.m. I mix up and make some zucchini muffins for our neighbors who so graciously gave us loads of zucchini this summer.

8:15 a.m. Luke begins his independent seat work. Lily and Jude get out the Quiet Box. Jack toddles around the house.

8:40 a.m. I play with Jack for a few minutes while Luke finishes up his independent seat work.

8:55 a.m. Sit down to complete seat work with Luke.

9:10 a.m. Sit down to complete seat work with Lily.

9:35 a.m. Put Jack down for his morning nap.

9:40 a.m. Meet in the school room with Luke, Lily and Jude. We read our devotion and pray. Luke and Lily recite their poems. We talk about the day and I read a few Eric Carle books.

10:25 a.m. Independent reading time for 20 minutes. I do reading lessons with Luke and Lily.

10:50 a.m. Make lunches to eat in the car. Peanut butter and jelly, pretzels, raspberries, carrots.

11:00 a.m. Get Jack up from his morning nap and head to Council Bluffs.

11:30 a.m. Drop off donations to Goodwill.

11:45 a.m. Drop off a meal to a friend. The three bigs have meltdowns in the car over someone kicking the back of a seat. They lose their tablets for the ride home.

12:30 p.m. Pick up grocery order at Wal-Mart.

12:35 p.m. Pick up Starbucks and head for home.

1:00 p.m. Luke and Lily drop off muffins to neighbors. It is the cutest.

1:10 p.m. Everyone helps put away groceries. Luke and Lily get screen time while Jude and Jack play.

1:35 p.m. Luke and Lily go to ‘help’ Grandma with the bees. They are all beekeepers.

2:00 p.m. Read Ten Thank You Letters to Jude and put him down for nap.

2:10 p.m. Put Jack down for an afternoon nap.

2:15 p.m. Prep roast and put in the oven for dinner. Do some blog work.

2:20 p.m. Luke comes in with two bumblebee stings. He isn’t too traumatized, so we put some ointment on and he is good to go.

3:00 p.m. Walk Luke back out to Grandma to work with the bees.

3:15 p.m. Pick cherry tomatoes.

3:45 p.m. Kids come back in from the bees and head to their rooms for Quiet Time.

4:00 p.m. Sit down to write and read.

4:15 p.m. Quiet time is over and the kids get up.

4:30 p.m. The kids turn on music as everyone gets up. It’s a lethargic dance party as everyone tries to wake up.

5:10 p.m. The roast comes out of the oven and dinner is ready.

5:30 p.m. We eat dinner together. Luke gets sick from the bumblebee sting.

5:45 p.m. Clean up dinner as Kevin leaves for a fantasy football draft with friends.

6:00 p.m. Kids get pajamas on and discuss a movie choice since Dad is gone and Luke isn’t feeling the best.

6:10 p.m. After much contemplation, we all agree on Tangled.

6:15 p.m. The three bigs start the movie while Jack and I tidy up the house and play.

7:00 p.m. Jack gets a bottle and I put him down for the night.

7:15 p.m. Kids eat bananas and Luke gets sick again.

7:20 p.m. We all finish the movie together.

7:45 p.m. I make a sick bed on the floor in Luke’s room and put him to bed.

7:50 p.m. Read stories, the Bible, and pray with Lily and Jude. Say goodnight.

8:05 p.m. Do office work for our farm. Lily and Jude come downstairs looking for a part of Jude’s truck.

8:40 p.m. Finish up the office work and leave a Marco Polo for a friend.

8:55 p.m. Check social media feeds. Read, then look at the rest of the week in my planner.

9:15 p.m. Start a new show on Netflix.

9:17 p.m. Luke wakes up crying. I move him into our room.

9:30 p.m. Kevin gets home and helps with Luke.

10:00 p.m. I call our pediatrician to ask about Luke as I google bumblebee stings.

10:45 p.m. Get a call back from our pediatrician’s nurse while Luke and Kevin are asleep in bed. Check to make sure Luke is okay.

Sometime before midnight: Fall asleep.

To be transparent, this wasn’t a typical day and to be totally transparent, our typical day changes often. Usually we don’t have a sick kid and usually I don’t make two batches of muffins and usually Kevin isn’t gone at night and usually I am asleep by 10. However, it was the day I randomly decided to record and here it is.

I know it’s always interesting to see what someone else’s day looks like. Tell me: do you ever record A Day in the Life?